Marriage in Mithila (Maithil Vivah)

In Mithila, marriage has its own traditions and rituals which have been followed for thousands of years. Maithil Brahmin weddings are considered one of the most popular because of their speciality and peculiarity. It is believed that these weddings follow the same customs and rites as the marriage of Lord Rama and Mata Sita as mentioned in the Ramayana.

Saurath Sabha

In old times, a bride-groom fair was held in the Saurath Village of Madhubani. 'Eligible' grooms would gather, and marriages were fixed based on genealogical records. This tradition of 'Saurath Sabha' is exclusive to the Mithila region.

Key Rituals

Marriage in Mithila is not a single-day event; it is a four-day affair. Without 'Chaturthi' (the 4th day), the marriage is not considered valid. The groom lives at the bride's home for four days.

Strict genealogical checks are performed. A 'Sidhanta' is done where the family tree of the past seven generations is matched by 'Panjiyaars' to ensure no prohibited blood relation exists between the bride and groom.

Unique rituals include 'Mandappachadan' (setting up the bamboo altar), 'Geet Gawai' (folk songs by women), and the significance of 'Kohbar Ghar'—a room decorated with symbolic paintings where the couple stays. The 'parichhan' and 'sindoordin' are central to the wedding ceremony.